Monday, October 30, 2006

Be Aware

I read Mel's latest post reminding us that this week is National Infertility Awareness Week and encouraging us to do something to create awareness and reach out to others with IF.

Her post made me think about how community has changed my struggle with IF. I remember reading different infertility message boards and wanting something deeper. People would come, post a question, get a response, and leave. You often didn't know how their cycle turned out or if the information they received helped them. So I did a search for infertility blogs, and quickly found Mel's site and the wonderful list of bloggers she maintains. Reading the experiences of real people made me feel less alone. Getting caught up in people's situations and rooting for people I didn't really know gave me a positive focus for my restless IF energy. Before too long, I decided to start a blog of my own. And it might sound cheesy, but starting this blog has really changed my life.

I didn't really expect any comments, but I had some within minutes of my first post. When Mel added me to her blog list, I felt like I was joining an important an meaningful group. I can't even express how much everyone's comments mean to me. It amazed me that people would send so many positive thought my way...people who knew exactly how I felt. While I appreciate every single good wish given to me by those who haven't had to deal with IF, it gave me such a sense of warmth to be heard by someone with their own battle scars. Meanwhile, my blog is a great source of stress relief. When bad things happen, I know that I can come to this safe space, record my true feelings, and figure out how to deal with them. I engage in meditation almost every day, and have learned the importance of deep, calming breaths. I feel like this blog is just another kind of deep breathing.

So this week I'm going to think about how I can continue to reach out to others. I already proudly wear my pomegranate bracelet. Maybe I will print out little information cards, attach a string, and leave them at my clinic. I'm going to find new blogs to read and make sure I leave comments for the people I feel I've grown close to. I'll search out petitions to sign that will legislate infertility coverage for everyone. I think it might be time to write my congress people again.

So who's with me?


The Town Criers said...

I'm with you :-)

Thank you--I feel the same way. Blogs have completely changed how I feel about the aloneness of IF.

aah0424 said...

Me, too! Blogging has been a great way to meet a wonderful community of women and very therapeutic!

Piccinigirl said...

I feel just like you do, that my message board and blogging has changed my life by changing my view of this thing I am fighting. I love reading your blog and wish you lots of luck with the TTC journey you (and I ) are on.


serenity said...

Me four!!! I do not know where I would be today if it weren't for the support of my fellow bloggers.

Probably in a corner rocking somewhere. :)

Michelle said...

Hooray for community! I'm new to the blog world (after lurking for months) and concur - it's really powerful to know that I'm not alone and to connect with so many great women!